As our parents and loved ones age, they will experience many mental and physical changes. These changes may include difficulty remembering things that were once crystal clear, problems performing everyday tasks, and challenges getting around physically. Most of these are simply a normal part of the aging process.
Significant changes in mood, however, are not a normal part of the aging process. Does your loved one shift from extreme anger or sadness in response to stressful, but normal situations? Major shifts in mood should be investigated, as they can be early indicators of dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. They can also be symptomatic of other problems, such as heart trouble, depression, and stroke.
You're more familiar with your loved one than anyone else, so you might be the first one to notice that something is going on. When is it just a mood swing, and when is it a sign of something serious? Here are the five signs to look out for:
1. Unexpected emotional responses that are out of character.
If your elderly loved one has always had a quick temper, it wouldn't be surprising or out of character for him to become frustrated with a neighbor who drives too fast or a friend who has failed to complete a responsibility as promised.
On the other hand, if an expression of temper is completely unexpected, it might be time to take a closer look. Has your child-loving grandfather suddenly become angry because the little girl next door came into his yard without permission? Has your patient-to-a-fault grandfather started to snap at you for taking too long to make a turn when you're driving? That might be a sign that something more is wrong.
2. Prolonged negative moods associated with negative events.
An aging relative might take the death of a friend hard, especially as he grows older, and many of his friends and colleagues pass away. However, if you start to feel as though your loved one has been depressed for longer than is appropriate, or that the downswing is more pronounced than usual, it might be time to call in a professional. Depression is common (and treatable) in elderly individuals, especially those who have recently experienced a significant life change.
3. Unfamiliar situations bring out pronounced and over-the-top mood swings.
In a situation that they face every day, an individual who is developing symptoms of dementia or Alzheimer's knows how to behave. When he is in his comfort zone, he is able to function easily. An unfamiliar situation, on the other hand, will likely cause stress to your loved one, and may elicit an excessively emotional response that is not appropriate.
4. Rapidly changing moods.
Everyone—not just the elderly—experiences mood swings. Even the most patient and kindhearted people will snap every once in awhile. Rapid mood swings, however, are fairly uncommon. If you start to see this behavior on a regular basis, it's time to talk to your elderly relative's doctor.
5. Increased irritability and demanding behaviors.
If your loved one is normally demanding, you're probably used to it. On the other hand, if your normally sweet and kind grandfather suddenly becomes extremely demanding or irritable, it could be a warning sign of a larger problem, like dementia or Alzheimer’s disease.
Ultimately, the most reliable sign that your elderly loved one has a problem is out-of-the-ordinary behavior. You're the one who knows him best. If you notice something odd, it's always worth having a conversation with your loved one’s doctor, even if it's just for your own peace of mind. Trying to care for a parent who is showing uncharacteristic mood swings can be difficult. Need help?
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